Podcast #112 For the Givers

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1. Never thought I would even consider this, but after being recommended a prostate massage, I saw a video of pegging and got excited. The thought of being taken by a woman seems thrilling. Maybe one day I might try it if I find the right woman who isn’t degrading.

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   1. Finding a woman who will give it to you the way you want to be taken is very important! Be sure to use your communication skills before jumping into bed with a strap-on!

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2. HI Ruby, I just want to say thank you..!

   Finding Pegging Paradise and in particular Episode 112 has just been absolutely amazing. I have long fantasized about pegging and have even shared my desires with my wife during steamy fuck sessions with her. But I’m not sure how sincere she believed I was about my lust to be pegged and was curious to why I want her to fuck me with a strap on.

   In the same breath anal play is not a foreign concept to us, as we already play around with rimming, fingers, and more recently, butt plugs. But your podcast put into words what I could freely not, and she is totally on board for wanting to explore and peg me now! Not that she wasn’t before but my wife now has a greater understanding of the deeper connection I hope to attain by having her fuck me.

   I’m a firm believer in taking things at an appropriate pace and am working my way towards the ultimate goal of being pegged. I play daily with the sensation the plugs create and working up to where I feel I need to be with regard to being pegged. And the very evening of my wife having listened to your amazing podcast (112) we discussed the subject of pegging. This got me slightly excited and we ended up talking about pegging whist my wife kindly gave me a hand job and my wearing a Fun Factory Plug. It was the most intense orgasm I have ever received. Many more to come I hope!

   So long story short….Thank you for helping me broach a subject that I was starting to feel was becoming an isolated interest as opposed to a shared experience with my wife. You have helped me tackle the fear of her judgement about my wanting to be pegged. Whilst also allowing my wife to look at her own fears about the subject. She gets my lust to see her wearing a strap on and my fantasies about wanting to feel her push deep into me. The desire to explore an intimate role reversal. I think my wife is arguably the most beautiful person on the planet. Inside and out. The strap on is an extension of that beauty to unlock something I know is waiting to bloom.

   Thank you!

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   1. I read this and responded on podcast #156. So glad #112 helped – sounds like you two already having a great time, and soon to have even more…!

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3. I have struggled with sharing my desire for pegging with my wife for years. Over time she has become comfortable with using toys on me, but the harness freaked her out. She would dabble on occasion but I could tell she wasn’t comfortable so I always felt bad for asking.

   I came across this podcast and asked her to listen to it with me. It has changed everything! I think all her questions and hindrances were addressed and having a 3rd party say it made it that much more effective.

   Now, she is comfortable with it and has truly felt like a wall has been torn down in our sex life (at least from my perspective). Just wanted to say thank you for putting this out there.

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   1. You are so welcome! So glad to hear that podcast #112 straightened things out for you both – it does seem to tear down those walls! 😉
      In an effort to tell more people about this podcast, I will be reading this comment on podcast #190, which will be posted on 3/6/18 late in the evening, PST.

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4. Podcast #112 is proof that Ruby is the all-mighty Queen of Pegging!

   I’ve been listening to her for over a year now, but just today got around to listening to this particular podcast. Despite not having any immediate prospects, I figured it wouldn’t hurt to know how she approached the subject with women. Maybe I could pick up a few pointers on how the sell the idea, should that delightful opportunity arise.

   Well, there’s no need for me to do the selling. I’ll just grab their cell phone, pull up the web browser, type in the link to this podcast and ask them to listen!

   I can think of at least one instance in my life when this resource would have helped. It would not have changed the outcome of the relationship, but at least we would have parted ways without her thinking I was a closeted gay freakazoid (not…that…there’s…anything wrong with that.)

   Over and above her warm and smooth delivery of the well-organized flow of facts and information on pegging, repeatedly she stresses something more important. That is this: whether or not you think pegging is something you would enjoy with your partner, as a couple you must be willing to talk and explore about those things in your life that bring you pleasure and joy, without regard to what society and popular opinion thinks.

   If you are a woman who has been asked to listen to this podcast, know that your man has placed a extraordinary amount of faith in you to see and, hopefully, accept his hidden hunger. He thinks so much of you that he would risk shame and disgust from his partner rather than keep this a secret from you. Know what an honor to you this is!

   With that spirit in mind, listen to what Ms. Ruby has to say.

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   1. Jay,
      I read this and responded on my latest podcast, #215
      Here’s the link:
      https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2018/09/podcast-215/
      Thanks so much for all your kind words!
      Lots of Love,
      Ruby

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